Positive Pants or Negative Pants which pair are you wearing?
- Aug 31, 2017
- 3 min read
Are you having one of those shitty days, weeks or even months??
We all have these times every now and again and yes, these days do suck! But let’s check ourselves before we literally wreck ourselves---everyone has something and that something can be worse than that something you are dealing with. True story!
When I say worse it could be anything from a death, a job loss, the kids being sick/defiant, health issues, living pay check to pay check, your car breaking down, divorce, to an ex being difficult, a even weather catastrophe leaving some homeless? All horrible and some examples much worse than others. Lets not compare. We all have something...
Sometimes these things all come at once, but why? Maybe just maybe to get the shit out of the way?? Because all the good is right around the corner. Let’s keep repeating: (self talk is good) THINGS will get better and repeat things will get better! Maybe it is to make you stronger and to realize life is not always peachy. WE all tend to learn from first-hand experience and this allows us to grow as humans, that is if we choose to grow….IT is also about choices. Choice in how we deal. WE all deal differently, we are all different players in this game called life. So instead of judging someone else’s terrible horrible no good very bad days. Lend a hand or a shoulder to cry on or just be there. Be a good human being. Even if you don’t agree, maybe you can be the positive in their negative… It could be a learning experience for both parties. We can all learn from one another…we can hold each-other up! So, what can you do to lift someone up?? Sometimes you lifting someone else up can also help you…..Just a thought.
These negative days do freaking suck and sometimes you just want to scream from the mountain tops, or sometimes it is only a molehill you are dealing with and you yourself has turned it into a mountain. Take a deep breath, maybe recite the colors of the rainbow, count to ten, mediate etc. Surround yourself with positive good peps. You will be surprised. Not all people are assholes.
Everything that is negative tends to turn positive but of course you must put on your positive pants on. Besides its science or math depending on how you look at it. Ah ha! It all depends on how we look at a situation. There are options- are you going to be Negative pants or Positive pants?? Are you going to dust yourself off??
Or get up dress up and show up with a smile on your face.
Folks these shitty days will soon be your past, and you will grow from them. You don’t have to look back just keep on looking forward- it’s all in the plan. IT may not seem like it NOW… But you MUST do your best to believe in you yourself and that it will all work out. Repeat after me- it will work out. It will not happen over-night, it may take some time. But all good things take time. It will all align. You just have to believe- just like in Santa Claus if you don’t believe you don’t receive. Get it??
Speaking of Santa-Walmart started layaway today for Santa Claus.
Check out some of these books I have read to give me some positive paints when I tend to wear negative pants…more days then most.
My thoughts for the day, after-all I am learning as I go as most of us do. But lets share what we learn in a positive way!
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