If I wanna take a guy a home with me tonight.....
- Sep 10, 2017
- 3 min read
ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!
I really think Salt n Peppa were on to something great. Not only did they make this small town country white girl feel like thee most bad ass rapper while listening and rapping right along but it made a point.
Please do not get this confused, the only guy I'm ever taking home is my handsome hubby, but hopefully it got your attention. I learned at a very young age what was my business and what wasn't. As a child it was none of my business what kind of financial situation my family was in. It also wasn't my business about the details of my parents relationships or really anything that adults did. I was told what I needed to know to grow and that was it. I didn't have social media to teach me things at to young of an age, however I would like to point out I did have my aunt who let me watch Silence of the Lambs around age 13 so I did have that... no worries I am not a cannibal.
Social media is both a blessing and a curse but I want to make something clear. ITS NONE OF MY BUSINESS.
It's none of my business what your relationship status is
It's none of my business if you receive welfare, child support, or even work.
It's none of my business whether you're a democrat, republican or independent.
It's none of my business, what your baby mama or daddy did or didn't do.
Keep your kiddos out of the adult world as long as possible anything you post will be their business at some point in their lives.
It's none of my business who your giving skin too.. ( sorry had to add that in there)
I could go on... but I'm sure you'll catch my drift. It's just a little social media etiquette of my personal opinion. Certain things are meant to stay within the sanctity of your own home. The four walls that surround you. Your husband doesn't appreciate you bitching publicly about how he doesn't do dishes, keep that between you and a girlfriend. Your baby daddy may not care what you post about how shitty he is, but your kids will one day. Who you vote for is your business, that's why ballots are private. If you feel the need to debate political topics do so in person so only those who care to listen have to listen.
Stop sharing your business because you can right at your fingertips.. 240 of the 250 people on your friends list don't care about above mentioned things but on the flip side.
If your struggling and have no one to turn to for help.. POST THE SHIT OUT OF THAT, pm everyone you know, get the help you need!
If your kid does something cute or crazy post the shit out of it! It will make someone's day!
If your dad freaks out at a croquet mallet while looking like Spartacus, post the hell out of it.
If you need advice, post it but be prepared to not always hear what you want to hear.
Don't be naive, keep things private, mind your own business and keep others out of yours.
Share the good stuff, get help with the bad stuff but don't make it everyone's business.
Don't push it, unless your rapping along then
Push it real good!





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